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Funmaxx because suffering is gay
The King laughs while his slaves are suffering.
There's something dangerous going around.
I've become a victim to it, and so did you probably.
"Stay hard!"
"You need to suffer to win."
"Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it."
Sounds familiar?
Yeah, because it's everywhere.
Goggins, Jocko, Hamza etc.
But when I followed this advice something felt off.
I was "productive" on paper.
But felt like shit. My life was empty.
And I realized that I was missing something crucial, but once I got it…
everything else clicked.
At the start this grind-mentality helped me. It pulled me out of my weakness.
I still remember reading "Can't hurt me" by Goggins and then going on a brutal run in the rain, my nose bleeding, but I was just pushing through it.
I don't think this was good, but it was an important part of the whole picture.
The problem isn't in doing these things.
It's in keeping to do them when they don't serve you anymore.
It's like a guy taking pain killers even after his broken arm healed. Doesn't make sense.
The grindset can cure the disease of weakness. But anything after that? It's doing more harm than good.
Because you start suffering for the sake of suffering.
That's slave shit. The only difference is that the slave can't choose if he wants this. YOU CAN.

Which way western man?
Let's say you're grinding on something you don't even like. WHY tf would you do that? There are so many fun things to do, and you choose to do things you HATE?
Suffering should be a short period. When you're down bad. At rock bottom.
You'll suffer there. And then you might as well breath it all in.
But when you get out of there, you don't need to suffer. Suffering shouldn't be your default state.
But you know what should be your default state?
Child-like play. DOPAMINE.
Life isn't about pain. Life is about joy and energy.
Your life should feed you with fun, not drain you with pain.

Stop forcing yourself through shit you hate.
And start doing things you enjoy.
Why are kids so happy all the time?
They haven't been brainwashed into thinking that progress comes from suffering.
They choose what's fun over everything else.
This is the shit giving you energy.
The retard wins because he simply does things he enjoys:
builds stuff
has 10 hobbies
watches movies
goes on adventures
learns random skills
laughs with the boys

Do what feeds you. What gives you energy.
Life is an energy game.
more energy = more fun = more progress = better life
So do me a favor and try it out:
1. Stop the suffering
Whatever you're doing rn that you really detest doing… STOP IT.
2. Have REAL fun
Fun gets a bad rap nowadays. It's associated with degeneracy.
But it isn't, if you have REAL fun.
adventure
your fav hobby
doing a bbq with some buddies
The things giving you good dopamine. That's where the power is at.
Your goal should be to get as close to a 100% fun life as possible.
3. Don't go back to suffering.
Sure, sometimes it's necessary. But not often.
The chapter of suffering is over.
You proved that you can push through. Good work G.
But now it's time to live.
Suffering is for slaves.
Kings enjoy their lives.
Live, and win the game.
And smile while you're at it.
Go back to child-like play.
If something doesn't serve you, moonwalk away.
Have some fun brother.